I'd like to have a positive discussion about...

[Barbara Moulton]

Gratitude, seeking contentment, mindfulness and intentional simplicity.

In other words...living in abundance.

Anyone want to join me in discussing this?

[Paula Karr]

Gratitude, seeking contentment, mindfulness and intentional simplicity.

In other words...living in abundance.

Anyone want to join me in discussing this?

IMHO, we we live in a spirit of gratitude, contentment is almost an offshoot.

I'm not sure what you mean by "mindfulness."

Intentional simplicity -- the older I get, the more stuff I'm glad to get rid of. We're working intentionally toward simplifying our lives, and are enjoying the lessening of stress that comes from having to maintain fewer material things. Is that what you mean?

Good topic!

Paula

[Barbara Moulton]

IMHO, we we live in a spirit of gratitude, contentment is almost an offshoot.

I'm not sure what you mean by "mindfulness."

Intentional simplicity -- the older I get, the more stuff I'm glad to get rid of. We're working intentionally toward simplifying our lives, and are enjoying the lessening of stress that comes from having to maintain fewer material things. Is that what you mean?

Good topic!

Paula


Mindfulness is generally about paying attention and being aware in the present moment. I have a choice to be in this moment, to be aware of what is going on around me and inside my head.

To me it is an important part of living in contentment and simplicity because one can use mindfulness to become aware of the blessing in each and every moment.

Getting rid of stuff is a big part of simplicity. But I have found that simplicity has become part of much of the rest of my life. For example, if you follow any of my contributions to the theology board you'll see that most of my posts come down to one simple word. That word is surrender. I've tried to "declutter" my spiritual journey to the things that are most important.

[Sheya Stephens]

I have been seeking mindful decisions. It is too easy when caught in the busyness and scheduled life to not take a step back and make sure that the attitude matches one of gratitude. Intentional simplicity can still take place even in the midst of 3 young children with dance lessons, piano lessons, etc. and Bible Study's, etc. I am working towards that goal also. You can either fight against the grain, change, or adapt. Am I on track to what you were thinking, Barbara?

[Paula Karr]

Mindfulness is generally about paying attention and being aware in the present moment. I have a choice to be in this moment, to be aware of what is going on around me and inside my head.

To me it is an important part of living in contentment and simplicity because one can use mindfulness to become aware of the blessing in each and every moment.

Getting rid of stuff is a big part of simplicity. But I have found that simplicity has become part of much of the rest of my life. For example, if you follow any of my contributions to the theology board you'll see that most of my posts come down to one simple word. That word is surrender. I've tried to "declutter" my spiritual journey to the things that are most important.

I have seen your posts about "surrender," and they have given me much food for thought. I've tended to be a worrier and an overthinker, and am trying to practice surrender. I love what you said about decluttering our spiritual journey to the things that are most important.

You're a wise woman -- I mean that sincerely.

Paula

[Barbara Moulton]

I have been seeking mindful decisions. It is too easy when caught in the busyness and scheduled life to not take a step back and make sure that the attitude matches one of gratitude. Intentional simplicity can still take place even in the midst of 3 young children with dance lessons, piano lessons, etc. and Bible Study's, etc. I am working towards that goal also. You can either fight against the grain, change, or adapt. Am I on track to what you were thinking, Barbara?

That's what I've been thinking.

Have to go out for awhile but I'd love to continue this discussion.

[Laurie Florence]

I am discovering that we can choose to focus on what we don't like about our situation and become obsessed with how we think things should be. Or, we can choose to find joy and blessings in exactly where we are. Even if things are not ideal, there are always blessings to be thankful for. I list what I'm thankful for every morning. (Gets the day off on a positive note :)) And I think if we surrender to God all our thoughts and ideas on how we think things should be, we open ourselves up to joy right here and right now. This doesn't mean we bury our heads in the sand and ignore troublesome issues. Of course we pray over these things. What it does mean is we place our concerns and our lives in the hands of our loving Father and we rest assured that in all things He works for the good of those who love Him.

[Barbara Moulton]

I am discovering that we can choose to focus on what we don't like about our situation and become obsessed with how we think things should be. Or, we can choose to find joy and blessings in exactly where we are. Even if things are not ideal, there are always blessings to be thankful for. I list what I'm thankful for every morning. (Gets the day off on a positive note :)) And I think if we surrender to God all our thoughts and ideas on how we think things should be, we open ourselves up to joy right here and right now. This doesn't mean we bury our heads in the sand and ignore troublesome issues. Of course we pray over these things. What it does mean is we place our concerns and our lives in the hands of our loving Father and we rest assured that in all things He works for the good of those who love Him.

Exactly my thoughts Laurie.

I like to really concentrate on developing a sense of gratitude for all the simple blessings in life.

[Sheya Stephens]

It is amazing what a simple change in attitude can do for someone. Instead of searching for miracles, answers, ways around issues... you can sit down as Laurie said and list every single item in which God has blessed us with. If that doesn't change your attitude, I don't know what will :)

I think this is a good thread... there is no way to focus on the negative when we are focusing on gratitude... I love it.

[Marg Webb]

I am discovering that we can choose to focus on what we don't like about our situation and become obsessed with how we think things should be. Or, we can choose to find joy and blessings in exactly where we are. Even if things are not ideal, there are always blessings to be thankful for. I list what I'm thankful for every morning. (Gets the day off on a positive note :)) And I think if we surrender to God all our thoughts and ideas on how we think things should be, we open ourselves up to joy right here and right now. This doesn't mean we bury our heads in the sand and ignore troublesome issues. Of course we pray over these things. What it does mean is we place our concerns and our lives in the hands of our loving Father and we rest assured that in all things He works for the good of those who love Him.


Laurie you said it so well.
My husband and I did this daily. What fun it is to come to the end of the day, week, month or year and see how the Lord was right there and did it ALL just because we took time for Him to guide us.
Very good writing Laurie!!

[Barbara Moulton]

'"Both abundance and lack exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we will tend... when we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that's present / love, health, family, friends, work, the joys of nature and personal pursuits that bring us pleasure / the wasteland of illusion falls away and we experience Heaven on earth.”

Sarah Breathnach

[Barb Bouldrey]

Having pastored 6 small churches and God directing me to be a full time pastor's wife and stay-at-home mom, we were forced to live simply. Until this pastorate I never had extra money for shopping so I learned not to enjoy shopping and learned not to spend on non-essentials. Now I do not care for knick knacks and extra things.

When my mother passed away and we had to clean out her apartment in such a short time, it gave me the desire to come home and downsize.

I imagine Mother Theresa was the perfect example of simplicity.

But then I do not believe simplicity has to always be about material things. Sometimes I have to simplify my life. I often find myself doing everything in the church that no one else will do, including the things I enjoy doing. And I have to release some of it to be able to enjoy being a part of the church life.

I am sure that busy women and busy mothers go through the same thing...how to simplify their daily lives so they can enjoy life more.


Being mindful....being mindful of what God would have me do today, this week, this month, this year.

Being mindful of the needs of other around me.

Being mindful takes time to stop and listen and look. Not be so wrapped up in "doing" that I miss opportunities to minister to others, even in my own home.

God has always given me the gift of contentment in where I live. I have always made each parsonage my home no matter what that home was like...apartment, mobile home, very old house, very new house, etc.

I have not always been content with my circumstances at times. There are times I "want out of here," whereever I am at the time. LOL

Barb

[Barb Bouldrey]

Gratitude is an intentional practice. Gratitude is a learned habit. Gratitude is sometimes a sacrifice...a sacrifice of praise when you do not feel like it. Gratitude is finding things to be thankful for in times when the rest of my life is black.

Sometimes I fail to show my gratitude to God.

As we pull in the garage after every trip I always say out loud, "Thank you, Lord, for a safe trip." We pray before we leave and thank the Lord as we return.

Barb

[Donna Dossett]

I think that the older I get, the more that irritating people, unnecessary worry, disappointments and heartaches all start to fade, in the light of what the Lord really wants me to experience, in my own heart, and live out in my daily life. Paul says in Philippians, "Finally, Brethern, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report, if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things which ye have both learned and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you." I've gone through so many real life changes these last several years, and finally--passages like this one, are starting to really penetrate the depths of my soul. Sometimes, less is more--less trying, and more leaning.

[Sheya Stephens]

My husband and I learned later on (after we were married and in debt) that living simple and gratitude really took practice. We are not there, yet. But in the years that we have tried to re-learn many things we learned as children, having children has really brought this to our attention. Our 3rd grader has classmates with cell phones. Her 1st question? When can I have one???? I laughed and said that the only reason her dad has one is that it is a company phone. She does not get one before her dad :) So to teach our children the basics of living within our means, gratitude for what we have- it needs to start now. Even though my husband and I are still paying off debts, we have our focus on the current lifestyle and examples that we are setting. That verse in Philippians is great! So very true.

[Barbara Moulton]

My husband and I just sat at the diningroom table (purchased at an auction for a song) and had a cup of tea, listened to worship music and played a game together.

I looked across at him and said, "We have a good life."

In just those 30 minutes my heart, spirit, soul and body were nourished.

You don't need to spend a lot of money to have these moments.

[Kathy O'Connor]

IMHO??? I'm not up on such abbreviations.

[Kathy O'Connor]

When I hear (read) "simplicity", my first thought is "stuff" and getting rid of it. But I've learned that "stuff" can also clutter our mind and thoughts. The longer I live the less I focus on stuff, either variety. My focus seems to be more on gratitude, drawing closer to Him and enjoying what crosses my path. Our pastor frequently talks about being Jesus to those we meet. I think I'd have to say that that has been my focus of late.

[Barbara Moulton]

IMHO??? I'm not up on such abbreviations.

In My Humble Opinion

[Barbara Moulton]

When I hear (read) "simplicity", my first thought is "stuff" and getting rid of it. But I've learned that "stuff" can also clutter our mind and thoughts. The longer I live the less I focus on stuff, either variety. My focus seems to be more on gratitude, drawing closer to Him and enjoying what crosses my path. Our pastor frequently talks about being Jesus to those we meet. I think I'd have to say that that has been my focus of late.

I think that the two can go hand in hand. The more we "declutter" our mind, the more we seen to want to "declutter" our environments.

[Laurie Florence]

'"Both abundance and lack exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we will tend... when we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that's present / love, health, family, friends, work, the joys of nature and personal pursuits that bring us pleasure / the wasteland of illusion falls away and we experience Heaven on earth.”

Sarah Breathnach

I find this thread very enjoyable and helpful. I've enjoyed reading all the posts. I really love this post - think I'll save it. It really speaks to what thoughts and feelings we are nurturing in our lives.

[Kathy O'Connor]

I think that the two can go hand in hand. The more we "declutter" our mind, the more we seen to want to "declutter" our environments.

You have a gift for "decluttering" my words. Thanks! :)

[Barbara Moulton]

"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
Matthew 6:21

I've been thinking about this verse lately and how it relates to gratitude and contentment.

Any thoughts?

[Laurie Florence]

"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
Matthew 6:21

I've been thinking about this verse lately and how it relates to gratitude and contentment.

Any thoughts?

This verse helps me prioritze - "declutter" my life so to speak. :) For example, if I find I'm running around like a chicken with its head cut off, I ask myself, where and on what am I spending my time? I think of this verse. I think of what I treasure most. Then I put my time and effort into these things, and eliminate (or at least reduce) the rest. This has helped me with contentment. It also gives me time to focus on what is really important and what I'm grateful for.

[Sheya Stephens]

It is so freeing when you can break down the eternal from the non-eternal.

[Gina Stevenson]

Laurie you said it so well.
My husband and I did this daily. What fun it is to come to the end of the day, week, month or year and see how the Lord was right there and did it ALL just because we took time for Him to guide us.
Very good writing Laurie!!

Marg, reading this reminded me once again of something I've said countless times I still miss ... our daily prayer times.

[Laurie Florence]

Marg, reading this reminded me once again of something I've said countless times I still miss ... our daily prayer times.

Daily prayer times with one's husband would be very precious and something to be grateful for.

[Laurie Florence]

Well, today was a blessing. Our family was snowed in and could not go to work or school. So, we did the dutiful thing, of course, and got some chores done ... but we also had lots of fun, fun, fun in the snow. We were snowmobiling around our property, laughing and enjoying each other. It was just plain and simple fun!!! So, as the evening falls upon us, I am thanking God for the gift of a family and an unexpected day off to spend with them. :)

[Barbara Moulton]

Well, today was a blessing. Our family was snowed in and could not go to work or school. So, we did the dutiful thing, of course, and got some chores done ... but we also had lots of fun, fun, fun in the snow. We were snowmobiling around our property, laughing and enjoying each other. It was just plain and simple fun!!! So, as the evening falls upon us, I am thanking God for the gift of a family and an unexpected day off to spend with them. :)

This is such a good example. We could look out the window and lament about the snow, or we could turn our gaze back to our home and family and rejoice in them.

I didn't get into the hospital yesterday but was able to go in for a few hours after my work at the church today.

So I am grateful that my job is flexible.

[Laurie Florence]

This is such a good example. We could look out the window and lament about the snow, or we could turn our gaze back to our home and family and rejoice in them.

I didn't get into the hospital yesterday but was able to go in for a few hours after my work at the church today.

So I am grateful that my job is flexible.

Yes, even our jobs can be a blessing. In my situation, actual hours of work are not flexible. However, my work is very accommodating in that they welcome my kids any time. So, I'm able to spend all of the Christmas and March breaks with my girls, and work at the same time. I even get to take them on fun and interesting field trips when I'm working with the school agers. This has been a great blessing. :)

[Sheya Stephens]

I was excited to be able to share about how blessed I am with my job, and then to find others feel the same is so encouraging to me. I started a job share last July. It was a brand new position and I had never been employed there before. I started only working on Friday. Then in January, I moved into 2 days a week. The lady I job share with and I have hit a very bumpy road. Last night I was fretting that I really wanted this to work, and my husband pulled me back into reality and reminded me that God was in control. The fact that this job has worked at all has God's hand all over it. Today, when I met with the Fire Chief (I am his administrative assistant) I found out how valued I was there and how pleased they are with my contribution to this position. God is good! It would have been very easy to fall into a poor me attitude. But with God in control, I had no where to go but up, and praised Him for a wonderful opportunity and a day full of blessings.

[Barbara Moulton]

I have had two wonderful days at work. As a chaplain, I am so privileged to have so many deeply meaningful encounters.

I wish I could share details but I decided a long time ago that it would not be ethical for me to share (even without giving names) the details of what patients tell me in confidence.

But what a blessing. It just happened that I had opportunity to speak to five patients in a two day period and each one of them brought me a special blessing or insight.

God is good.

[Barbara Moulton]

Today I read this quote from Barbara Kingsolver.

"My parents taught me this — to gasp, and feel lucky. They gave me the gift of making mountains out of nature's exquisite molehills."

Isn't this a delightful twist on an old metaphor? As I read it, I was reminded of those lines written by William Blake.

To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand
And eternity in an hour.

These quotes point to one of life's ironies. If we become consumed with tedious little things, our lives lose a sense of balance. But when we take the time to notice precious little things, our lives become more stable.

[Laurie Florence]

Today I read this quote from Barbara Kingsolver.

"My parents taught me this — to gasp, and feel lucky. They gave me the gift of making mountains out of nature's exquisite molehills."

Last Sunday, my husband and I walked through a rain forest in Panama. It was breathtaking. God created this world with such beauty. I just cannot help but praise Him. :basic01

[Barbara Moulton]

Last Sunday, my husband and I walked through a rain forest in Panama. It was breathtaking. God created this world with such beauty. I just cannot help but praise Him. :basic01

Hope to see some pictures posted Laurie :)

[Joanne Vergin]

O.k. I just got a real shot in the arm. My thread I started on my birthday last year has been elevated to "sticky" status.

[Laurie Florence]

Hope to see some pictures posted Laurie :)

Here's a picture of a valley with some mountains in the distance. Kind of reminds me of a book I read a while ago. :)

[Barbara Moulton]

O.k. I just got a real shot in the arm. My thread I started on my birthday last year has been elevated to "sticky" status.

I decided it was a good idea so you wouldn't have to keep bringing it up. I'll keep it up there as long as you want me to Joanne.

Blessings,
Barbara
Moderator

[Laurie Florence]

Well, last week was busy and challenging at work. But I find, the more challenge there is, the more blessings arise. By the end of the week, I had been hugged by a collegue (when I was in tears), forgiven (when I messed up someone's book order - when they were really looking forward to the books), had someone ask me to pray for them, had one of the more challenging kindergarten boys greet me with the words "I love you, Laurie", had another collegue take over a task I was supposed to do but forgot ... the list just keeps going on! Anyway, it seems that when things get really tough and discouragement could easily set in, God just works through other people to lift my spirits. I feel very blessed today.

God is good. :)

[Laurie Florence]

Today I am very grateful for my morning in church. Barbara sang the most beautiful solo about Jesus, and submitting to His love and will. Then, my pastor's sermon was about praying. This is a great way to start the week.

Hope you all were blessed in church this morning. :)

[Barbara Moulton]

Today I am very grateful for my morning in church. Barbara sang the most beautiful solo about Jesus, and submitting to His love and will. Then, my pastor's sermon was about praying. This is a great way to start the week.

Hope you all were blessed in church this morning. :)

And I am grateful to have a friend like Laurie Florence in my church. :)

I was also grateful this morning to have a bass guitar player on our worship team. This was his second Sunday and he and the other guitar player did back up while I sang. It really filled out the sound beautifully.

[Joanne Vergin]

On the first Sunday of the month, I get to be in the nursery. We have some cute babies.

I am having a hard time at work and my husband is being very supportive at home. I am so grateful.

[Sheya Stephens]

My Sunday was wonderful. I taught the K-1st graders and our lesson was when Jesus calmed the sea. I love this age group because when the light bulb turns on you know that Jesus is at work. This is a great experience. I also feel blessed because we are meeting new friends at our new church. It was hard to leave our 'church family' of ten years, but God has blessed us with a new church home and the friends that we are making are becoming stronger each day. God is an incredible God.

[Laurie Florence]

Hope to see some pictures posted Laurie :)


Here's another picture. This one is taken on the resort in Panama. Pretty sunset. Very peaceful. :)

[Gina Stevenson]

Here's another picture. This one is taken on the resort in Panama. Pretty sunset. Very peaceful. :)

Laurie, it's so pretty that when I went to save it, I clicked on "desktop," too, at least for awhile. ;)

Thanks.

[Laurie Florence]

Laurie, it's so pretty that when I went to save it, I clicked on "desktop," too, at least for awhile. ;)

Thanks.

Glad you like it, Gina :)

[Barbara Moulton]

Glad you like it, Gina :)

Laurie:

Let's both look at the picture a lot over the next 24 hours as we face yet another storm :)

[Laurie Florence]

Laurie:

Let's both look at the picture a lot over the next 24 hours as we face yet another storm :)

Actually, this is the picture that I'll be pondering upon as we face the storm. :basic05

[Gina Stevenson]

Laurie:

Let's both look at the picture a lot over the next 24 hours as we face yet another storm :)


Here, too ... one of these fine months it'll end ... until just another few months after that. :eek:

[Barbara Moulton]

Actually, this is the picture that I'll be pondering upon as we face the storm. :basic05

Woke up to more snow on the ground and more falling from the sky. I don't have anywhere particular to go until noon so I shall stay in my cozy house.

I am grateful that, even though it is snowy, it isn't as cold as it was for a few days last week.

I am grateful for our new furnace.

I am grateful for my cup of Red Rose tea.

:)

[Laurie Florence]

Woke up to more snow on the ground and more falling from the sky. I don't have anywhere particular to go until noon so I shall stay in my cozy house.

I am grateful that, even though it is snowy, it isn't as cold as it was for a few days last week.

I am grateful for our new furnace.

I am grateful for my cup of Red Rose tea.

:)

Just got home from work (we had a meeting after the centre closed).

I am grateful for a nice cup of hot chocolate (with marshmallows).

I, too, am grateful for our new furnace. Heats the whole house really well!

I am grateful that I did make it in to work, even with the storm. The day was long. However, an unexpected visitor dropped by to see me. Warmed my heart and lifted my spirits! :)

[Joanne Vergin]

I'm praising God for Technology right now.
It is so cool that I can IM my brother.

[Joanne Vergin]

THe weather is warm enought to hang up clothes!

[Laurie Florence]

THe weather is warm enought to hang up clothes!

Wow!!! That's so nice. :) We are not quite there yet, but it is a lot milder. I can feel that spring is in the air!

[Joanne Vergin]

Robins, sand hill cranes, I'm excited.

[Barbara Moulton]

I'm just praising God for the sunshine and warmer temperatures.

I would love for it be suddenly "really warm" but I know that would cause many flooding problems with the amount of snow still around. A gradual warming trend will be better than a sudden thaw.

I read the other day that there is a pile of snow in Montreal (snow that has been dumped by the snow removal trucks). This pile of snow is so big that, if it were not broken up, there would still be part of it there NEXT winter.

One of the men in our church mentioned to me today that it was four years since his wife passed away. And coming back from the visitation in 2004 we were driving in a fierce snow storm. This winter has seemed long but he reminded me that we were getting really bad weather in March that year too.

Maybe winter is like child labour. A woman forgets the pain of it afterward and only remembers the joy? :)

[Laurie Florence]

Maybe winter is like child labour. A woman forgets the pain of it afterward and only remembers the joy? :)

Yes, we'll probably forget all about any frustrations from the snow, and just remember the nice parts. Parts like the beauty of a white Christmas. Things like being snowed in and unable to leave the house, which left nothing to do but catch up on reading and baking! Plus, this winter was very conducive to snowmobiling, which can be a fun sport.

Of course, all this being said, I still am looking forward to spring! :basic07

[Rosalie Ross]

Discussing the weather when you live in Texas they say "If you do not like the weather just stick around because it will change" which is true. It never snows in Houston and went from 88 record this week to a drop in cooler temps. I am hoping for rain this week, really. :basic01

[Laurie Florence]

Well, today I'm praising God that I have paid all the household bills for the month, and there still is some money left over in the bank. Don't know how we make ends meet sometimes, but God is faithful. :basic01

[Crystal Lutton]

Laurie, I'm so glad God has proven himself faithful in your life another month. Our last decade has involved so many months--even years--where I couldn't tell you how God did it, but he did. I truly believe that our faith grows as God is faithful--it's not something we can manufacture.

I think this is such a wonderful and encouraging discussion. I've found intentional living to be such a blessing in my life when I remember to do it. With our twins being born 2 months premature and requiring so much during their pg and in the years after their birth I am finding myself with 3 year olds and my older children that much older and sort of scratching my head wondering where it went. I've been striving to live more in the moment instead of in survival mode.

Years ago a pastor encouraged us to spend a weekend not asking God for anything--but when a need would pop into our head just thanking God for the answer he already had ready. It really made me aware of how whiny I had gotten with God. Now I try to do this as a discipline if I am finding myself feeling discontent. It really serves to refocus.

[Barbara Moulton]

I've found intentional living to be such a blessing in my life when I remember to do it. With our twins being born 2 months premature and requiring so much during their pg and in the years after their birth I am finding myself with 3 year olds and my older children that much older and sort of scratching my head wondering where it went. I've been striving to live more in the moment instead of in survival mode.

Years ago a pastor encouraged us to spend a weekend not asking God for anything--but when a need would pop into our head just thanking God for the answer he already had ready. It really made me aware of how whiny I had gotten with God. Now I try to do this as a discipline if I am finding myself feeling discontent. It really serves to refocus.

Yes...it's a lot easier I think for me to live in the moment... now that my children are grown and I am not constantly picking up after them. My livingroom actually stays neat and tidy every day. All I need to do is dust and vacuum once a week. That's huge for me.

My youngest does have a habit of phoning a lot. Right now I am trying to help her trim an essay down to 2500 words. Since she originally had 5,000 words that's quite a feat. But she is getting there. :) And I praise God that she turns to me.

I've had a tough couple of weeks at the hospital, many challenges and one really heartbreaking page to Emergency. So I have had to very intentionally focus on the blessings in my life and nurture my spirit in the evening.

[Barbara Moulton]

Well, today I'm praising God that I have paid all the household bills for the month, and there still is some money left over in the bank. Don't know how we make ends meet sometimes, but God is faithful. :basic01

Good stuff Laurie. :)

I'm happy right now because I got much of my music loaded on this computer. Sooooo...I can sit in my big comfy chair in the livingroom (you know which one I mean) surf the net AND listen to Coldplay.

And drink tea of course.

[Barbara Moulton]

Simplifying:
I'm making a point of walking through my house at least once a week to find stuff I can give away on Freecycle.

[Barbara Moulton]

Speaking of music on my computer.

I have bought a lot of movie soundtracks over the years. From movies like Little Women, Meet Joe Black, The Truman Show...etc. Usually, on every CD about 75% of the music is beautiful. But then there will be some tracks that are not to my taste.

Soooo....I loaded the CD's on to my computer but deleted the songs I don't like.

Makes for some very peaceful listening music.

Which is actually putting me to sleep. So I shall take myself off to bed.

[Laurie Florence]

Well, this was a blessing. I have a friend at work who is not a christian, but is often very open to discussion. Anyway, she asked me what is the meaning of Easter. So, I had the priviledge of explaining it to her. :basic01

[Joanne Vergin]

Yesterday a co-worker stuck up for me,
Someone invited me over to their house,
And another co-worker just brought me flowers, a sandwich and a coke!

When praises go up, blessings come down!

[Barbara Moulton]

I got my hair cut today and I love it!

It still has length but I got some layering done so I can go all flippy :)

[Laurie Florence]

Joanne, that is nice about your co-workers.

Barbara, can't wait to see the new "flippy" hair. :)

[Barbara Moulton]

Joanne, that is nice about your co-workers.

Barbara, can't wait to see the new "flippy" hair. :)


Had some problems with it today. I think I need to go buy a flat iron because that's what the hairdresser used.

[Rosalie Ross]

Being positive about hair...hmmm. Well considering that I am feeling a little under the weather, and realizing that my hair might look better and stay nicer longer if i got a perm, that is what i have decided to do tomarrow. So no more straight blowdrying for me, and will see how this perm will do. It has been ages since i have had one. It is a nice color tho, i think, and had it done about the 1st of March. Conditioned it this morning as thought that would be a good idea, altho they said no need. (ha). Have a very blessed day.:basic01

[Cathey Stott]

Originally Posted by Barbara Moulton
Woke up to more snow on the ground and more falling from the sky. I don't have anywhere particular to go until noon so I shall stay in my cozy house.

I am grateful that, even though it is snowy, it isn't as cold as it was for a few days last week.

I am grateful for our new furnace.

I am grateful for my cup of Red Rose tea.

***
I like listing things that I am grateful for. I started a running list of such things in my journal last year and it is a blessing to read over it from time to time.

Here's a few of mine:

I am thankful for my healthy parents - age 81 and 79.

I am thankful for my health - especially important to me after suffering a major stroke 4 years ago

I am thankful for my new little boston terrier puppy.

I am thankful for a loving God who designed me with a unique purpose.

[Joanne Vergin]

I am thankful for people who post on this thread.
Welcome Cathey!

[Barbara Moulton]

Welcome Cathey!

Great to have you on board :)

[Laurie Florence]

Welcome Cathey! :basic01

[Londa Paul]

Wow great pics! I read quickly through this thread and just kept thinking about one of my favorite verses...

"Let your gentleness be evident to all. God is near." Phil 4:5

This verse has reminded me to be careful what comes out of my mouth as well as my mind and heart thoughts. ( Boy can I ever get into trouble with my mouth, mind and heart!!!!) I don't know if this is changing the subject and I don't mean to. With the posts about how busy we can get in our lives I often need a reminder, when dealing with family and others, that my gentleness is so important. Can you make this fit in? I don't really know where all I'm going with this but isn't it also interesting that the second part of the scripture says, "God is near"? I mean what a great reminder that we are always so close to the other side? Just a breath away!
Then again, why would Paul write the other half of this other than to just remind us of how important it is to have the gentleness of Christ evident in our lives.
Oops, I really think I took this a bit off track. Anyway, that's my ramblings for the night.:o

[Joanne Vergin]

Beautiful Londa. Please visit more!

[Londa Paul]

I actually came across the Phil 4 verses again today in a Bible Study I'm involved in. Amazement once again in how I keep being reminded about being gentle with everyone. Even with those I claim to love???? Oh, is that ever hard!

Thanks for the encouragement Joanne! The W2W is more my speed. :basic05I like to read the theology thread:cool: but just don't get some of it and wish I could post there but feel like a real dummy!:rolleyes:

[Joanne Vergin]

Welcome to the club Londa, you sound like my kinda gal!

[Barbara Moulton]

Wow great pics! I read quickly through this thread and just kept thinking about one of my favorite verses...

"Let your gentleness be evident to all. God is near." Phil 4:5

This verse has reminded me to be careful what comes out of my mouth as well as my mind and heart thoughts. ( Boy can I ever get into trouble with my mouth, mind and heart!!!!) I don't know if this is changing the subject and I don't mean to. With the posts about how busy we can get in our lives I often need a reminder, when dealing with family and others, that my gentleness is so important. Can you make this fit in? I don't really know where all I'm going with this but isn't it also interesting that the second part of the scripture says, "God is near"? I mean what a great reminder that we are always so close to the other side? Just a breath away!
Then again, why would Paul write the other half of this other than to just remind us of how important it is to have the gentleness of Christ evident in our lives.
Oops, I really think I took this a bit off track. Anyway, that's my ramblings for the night.:o


I've been thinking about this Londa. I don't think it is taking things off track. I handle things gently when I know that they are precious. So my "dollar store" cereal bowls are not treated as gently as my grandmother's china.

Do you think that being "gentle" fits into simplicity and gratitude because gentleness requires that you look at each person as "precious"? If you regard the people in your life as precious then you will indeed find your heart filled with gratitude.

[Barbara Moulton]

This morning I am grateful for the sun streaming through my window, birdsong, and the promises of a warmer weekend.

The immense snow of this winter has been gradually melting. This weekend should see much of it disappear.

[Londa Paul]

I've been thinking about this Londa. I don't think it is taking things off track. I handle things gently when I know that they are precious. So my "dollar store" cereal bowls are not treated as gently as my grandmother's china.

Do you think that being "gentle" fits into simplicity and gratitude because gentleness requires that you look at each person as "precious"? If you regard the people in your life as precious then you will indeed find your heart filled with gratitude.

Yes Barbara, I do think gentle fits here. You said it better than I did and its really where I was trying to go...I think. It was late at night for me so I was really not thinking clearly. Thanks for the thoughts!

[Londa Paul]

Today is a great day! I woke up early and got the coffee on for Hal. I'm thankful for my husband and how he encourages and supports me! Hal just called from work. He forgot to drink any coffee! lol Guess I need to try to do it more often, as it just wasn't his habit to even have coffee before he leaves the house!

[Laurie Florence]

I have become close to one particular friend at work. We pray for each other when the need arises. She noticed that my week had got off to a rough start. So she told me she was praying for me, and she told me about a Psalm that brings her much comfort (116). It is a blessing to work with someone with which to share joys and sorrows with.

God is good.

[Barbara Moulton]

I have become close to one particular friend at work. We pray for each other when the need arises. She noticed that my week had got off to a rough start. So she told me she was praying for me, and she told me about a Psalm that brings her much comfort (116). It is a blessing to work with someone with which to share joys and sorrows with.

God is good.

It is a blessing to have understanding people in your life. That's why I am so glad to have you in mine.

[Laurie Florence]

This evening I am thinking about how grateful I am for my two daughters. We are going to shop for a prom dress for my oldest, this Saturday. This is such a special time of life.

These two girls bring such joy to my life. I'm just praising God tonight, for the family He has given me. :)

[Sheya Stephens]

I remember shopping for prom dresses for me, but have not been on the other side yet. What an awesome priviledge that you can be a part of their fun!

ENJOY!

[Barbara Moulton]

I was blessed with both my daughters. They were very easy to shop for when buying their prom dresses. Usually the first or second dresses they tried on.

Tonight I am grateful because I go on holidays tomorrow. I'll try to pop in once in awhile as the guest centre at the resort we are staying at has internet access.

Take care all.

Blessings,
Barbara

[Laurie Florence]

Praying safe travel and a wonderful, relaxing vacation for you, Barbara. :basic01

[Laurie Florence]

I am praising God for my church family today. The songs were wonderful. (We have a new bass player who really fills out the sound). We had a guest speaker who is a missionary in Zimbabwea. He had lots of wonderful and encouraging information to share. Plus ... it was potluck Sunday ... someone brought ice cream cake, with chocolate chips on it!

I am so blessed to be part of such a lovely church. :basic01

[Anne and Dwayne Hood]

Thanks, Barbara for your helpful comments. We have two daughters, and a son. They are such a pleasure and delight to us.
It is indeed, such a pleasure and reward, when our children turn to us, and want our help. That says something to me-as it does you.

[Laurie Florence]

This evening I am thinking about how grateful I am for my two daughters. We are going to shop for a prom dress for my oldest, this Saturday. This is such a special time of life.

These two girls bring such joy to my life. I'm just praising God tonight, for the family He has given me. :)


Here's the prom dress!

[Joanne Vergin]

An old High school friend and I reconnected.

Life is good!

[Laurie Florence]

The weather was beautiful today. It was sunny and only a light jacket was required in the afternoon. My toddlers at work really enjoyed playground in the afternoon. I had a bubble wand and was blowing bubbles for them and singing "my bubble flew over the ocean, my bubble flew over the sea, my bubble flew over the rainbow, oh, bring back my bubble to me." They were chasing the bubbles and laughing, and even singing some of the words.

My work can be such a joy sometimes - especially at this time of the year. So, tonight, I am praising God for my job.

[Joanne Vergin]

I think I am going to steal that idea!

[Sheya Stephens]

SPRING IS HERE!!! We are in the high 70's and it is beautiful. Each of my girls' have a garden where we plant seeds each spring. It gives them something to take care of and shows God's creativeness when we put ugly black seeds into the ground what they transform into is fun for me to watch the as the girls' watch in amazement.

[Sheya Stephens]

PRAISING GOD!!!

1- My husband is home from the hospital and getting stronger each day. He went to work today for 2 1/2 hours. I kept him on the same schedule as my kindergartner :laughing

2- I start my 3rd work day next Monday. I have computer, furniture, and the okay to start when everything is installed.

3- My girls' are healthy! My oldest daughter has reoccuring ear infections and for the most part has 1 every month... it has been 3 months!!! Her new eardrum is finally functioning and her hearing is improving. We have worried and prayed for her for 8 years.

I could just go on and on. Sometimes my time in the wilderness feels like 40 years, when in reality it is a couple of weeks at a time. But when I invite God into my pity party, it doesn't last long. All I can do is praise HIS name!

[Barbara Moulton]

Praising God for "green".

I love it when all the leaves come out on the trees and when I look out my kitchen window, all I see is the leaves of my big old maple.

[Amy Schultz]

I have found the best way to intentional simplicity is to get back to an intentional Sabbath. I read Working The Angles by Eugene Peterson and it challenged me more than any other book I've read. (Outside of the Bible.) I don't mean to observe a Sabbath legalistically. Rather, doing it on purpose and protecting that time set aside for nothing else but reflecting, prayer and celebration of what God has done in that week. It's like having a personal prayer summit with the Triune Godhead and yourself. Everything else falls into it's proper place, priority and perspective when I am disciplined enough to do this regularly. A natural by product of this is mindful simplicity.

[Laurie Florence]

Well, today I am very grateful that God has led me to such a wonderful church. A few of us got together to pray last night, and it was wonderful. It is such a blessing to have people to join in prayer with.

So I am starting today feeling very grateful and blessed. :)

[Sheya Stephens]

Today I am greatful for health insurance... We have just received the bill from my husband's hospital stay, then while the girls' were with a babysitter tonight, the middle daughter (6) fell during freeze tag and broke her arm in 2 places. So instead of panicking, I am going to look at the balances of these bills and praise God that when our insurance takes care of their share, our amount due will be smaller. It is still a lot of money, but it could have been so much worse if we didn't have insurance.

[Laurie Florence]

Well today is my daughter's prom night. During the day, while I was at work, she had a minor malfunction with her dress, which required sewing of straps. Anyway, I wasn't home to help her. So a neighbour sewed the straps for her. I'm grateful for a neighbour friend who can help out my daughter when I'm not around.

By the way, the dress ended up looking beautiful, and she has just left now for the prom. Oh, to be 17 again ...

[Laurie Florence]

My daughter just text messaged me and sent a picture of the prom. She is having such a good time.

I'm getting a little misty eyed now.

My baby is growing up ...

[Laurie Florence]

Well, the prom is over. My daughter is home now, and tucked safely in bed. :basic01

[Joanne Vergin]

I had been without power for 25 hours. The sweetest sound in the civilized world is a flushing toilet.

[Sheya Stephens]

Oh, I am so sorry! I hope you don't have to endure that again any time soon...

[Joanne Vergin]

THe Power came back on "for good" last night after another outage.

[Laurie Florence]

Tonight I am grateful for a friend I have had for 30 years. We were little girls when we met! :fav16:fav16

We've been through camp, teenage angst, our twenties, thirties and now, we are working on our forties. :laughing

I just realized this evening how truly valuable a friendship like this is.

So I'm thanking God for it.

[Wanda Van Winkle]

Mindfulness: I've been working on this one. If something bothers me, I try to make it part of my life NOT to do that thing (unsuccessfully, often).

One thing that bothered me was the looking-right-past-you face when you are trying to talk to someone, especially managers at work.

Another thing...along the same line...is that people hear the first few words and already form an answer and an opinion and they don't even hear what you have to say.

So... to deal with my own frustration, if approaching a person who tends to do this type of thing, I preface it, "Now wait until I finish before you answer," or "listen to the whole story."

For my own change, I attempt, even in cases where I think I know the answer, to allow the person to tell the whole story, to talk it out, get it out of their system, and I really DO LISTEN for something that I might not have thought of, or something I can direct my answer to, specifically. It helps me focus. And they know I care.

[Barbara Moulton]

I went grocery shopping yesterday and picked up a package of 16 chocolate bars. This is a little treat I get for us once in awhile, the grocery store sells a variety pack for $9.95. But they were on sale for $7.95. Even better. But when I got to the till they scanned at the regular price.

When I brought it to the cashier's attention she confirmed it and then informed me that if there is a mistake in the scanning like this, the item is free. So I got 16 free chocolate bars. LOL

[Gina Stevenson]

I went grocery shopping yesterday and picked up a package of 16 chocolate bars. This is a little treat I get for us once in awhile, the grocery store sells a variety pack for $9.95. But they were on sale for $7.95. Even better. But when I got to the till they scanned at the regular price.

When I brought it to the cashier's attention she confirmed it and then informed me that if there is a mistake in the scanning like this, the item is free. So I got 16 free chocolate bars. LOL

There were several stores that did this in Phoenix. Got back here, expected that was something they may have started doing also while I was living out West, and haven't found one yet who does this. I didn't think it was so awful ... rather a little "reward" for having bro't it to their attention, so they can change their computerized register system so it will ring right for the next how-many times until the same is over.

Guess they're what's called "tight" here [a reputation a certain nationality is said to be noted for, and of which there are scads of in this area]. ;)

[Gina Stevenson]

I went grocery shopping yesterday and picked up a package of 16 chocolate bars. This is a little treat I get for us once in awhile, the grocery store sells a variety pack for $9.95. But they were on sale for $7.95. Even better. But when I got to the till they scanned at the regular price.

When I brought it to the cashier's attention she confirmed it and then informed me that if there is a mistake in the scanning like this, the item is free. So I got 16 free chocolate bars. LOL

There were several stores that did this in Phoenix. Got back here, expected that was something they may have started doing also while I was living out West, and haven't found one yet who does this. I didn't think it was so awful ... rather a little "reward" for having bro't it to their attention, so they can change their computerized register system so it will ring right for the next how-many times until the same is over.

Guess they're what's called "tight" here [a reputation a certain nationality is said to be noted for, and of which there are scads of in this area]. ;)

Anyway, that was a nice little perk many times out in Phoenix, where $$$ was even tighter than here. Liked their way of doing business. :cool:

[Joanne Vergin]

A dear dear friend I have known since 1980 passed on Sunday. Much too young. A tiny silver lining is that many of our High School/College friends are getting together Friday for the funeral. It will be nice to talk to them. Seems it only happens under these circumstances though.

[Laurie Florence]

My oldest daughter turned 18 yesterday. It doesn't seem that long ago that I was waddling into the hospital to have her. So, I am thanking God for this beautiful baby girl he blessed me with.

[Barbara Moulton]

My oldest daughter turned 18 yesterday. It doesn't seem that long ago that I was waddling into the hospital to have her. So, I am thanking God for this beautiful baby girl he blessed me with.


Laurie...do you have a picture of her as a baby or toddler that you could scan and send to me? I could put it up on the power point on Sunday with a happy birthday note.

[Sheya Stephens]

I am greatful that I work with compassionate people. We had a walk in medical (I work as an admin for a fire station). She was an 89 year old woman who wasn't feeling well, so her husband wanted her to have her blood pressure checked. She was not doing well so the Captain called over the paramedics (from next door) and had them come over. They agreed that she should be transported. I watched and helped as needed as they were right in front of my desk. It wasn't until they got this little, tiny, fragile woman on the stretcher and wheeled her out that I started to cry. When the firefighters came in they saw me (feeling quite shaken by the ordeal) they took the time to talk about it.. then one firefighter came back in about 2 minutes later and prayed for me. I know that I am where God has me here and feel so blessed!

[Laurie Florence]

Laurie...do you have a picture of her as a baby or toddler that you could scan and send to me? I could put it up on the power point on Sunday with a happy birthday note.

Here's my cutie in her swing. It was one of her favourite things. :)

[Laurie Florence]

Today I am praising God because I have been offerred a new job, and I accepted!

Anyway, the timing of this new job is unbelievably perfect. Plus, it is a very good thing for my family.

I am rejoicing! and praising God! :basic01

[Sheya Stephens]

Tell us more, Laurie. What will you be doing and what are you moving from? Congratulations!

[Laurie Florence]

Tell us more, Laurie. What will you be doing and what are you moving from? Congratulations!

I'm moving from working with young children as an early childhood educator, to office administration work. I'm looking forward to the change. I'm going back to my current job for one more week, and then will move on to the new one.

The new job is a wonderful opportunity. It's an exciting time for me right now! :)

[Barbara Moulton]

I'm moving from working with young children as an early childhood educator, to office administration work. I'm looking forward to the change. I'm going back to my current job for one more week, and then will move on to the new one.

The new job is a wonderful opportunity. It's an exciting time for me right now! :)

I wish you could all have seen Laurie this past week. She is "beaming".

:)

[Sheya Stephens]

That sounds wonderful, Laurie. Have fun!

[Laurie Florence]

Friday was my last day at my old job. I was fine, until I had to say goodby to one of my favourite children. She cried, hugged me and would not let go. I cried then.:gen06 But now I am looking forward to my new job starting on Tuesday.

God is good. :)

[Sheya Stephens]

Laurie- it is not quite Tuesday (I have an hour to go here in Idaho), but I have been praying for your transition and for you to have a wonderful time tomorrow!

[Laurie Florence]

Laurie- it is not quite Tuesday (I have an hour to go here in Idaho), but I have been praying for your transition and for you to have a wonderful time tomorrow!

Thank you Sheya. :basic01 I had a wonderful first day. It has been a very smooth transition so far.

I am just so thankful to God for the opportunity of this job.

[Laurie Florence]

I really wanted to resurrect this thread today. :basic01

It is Thanksgiving here in Canada, so I am pausing today to thank God for his blessings. We had our dinner last night and it was wonderful. But, as in any family, there were some issues (nobody has the perfect life). However, I had my mother in law - who is really more like a mother - to stand beside me, hold my hand when things got overwhelming, etc. So, I am praising God that He has given me this friend who stands by me in the rough times as well as the good; who I can both celebrate with and cry with.

Also, on a lighter note, I am praising God that my sciatic nerve problems are diminishing rapidly. Today, already, I have been able to get back to cleaining my house. I have been able to reorganize the cupboards the way I like them. The home will again be sparkling!

And, finally, I am thankful for the coming Christmas season, because today, I do plan to get one of my Christmas trees up! :basic01

[Joanne Vergin]

When I woke up this morning, I was praising God. Just because HE Is.