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Dana Grant
October 25th, 2010, 07:42 PM
Today has been a most unusual day.......

Normally, my days go pretty smoothly -- not too many interruptions. I get to work at about 6 a.m. and end my day around 1 p.m. on most days.

One of the challenges of working at home is the fact that many people don't think you really WORK. In the early years (I started my business in 1989), I had moms who worked outside the home to call me and ask if I could go pick up their sick child from school or daycare. Or "could you babysit my kids tomorrow?" for some reason or another.....or a neighbor would ask "could you take me to the doctor" or something. It took a little while, but slowly people started coming around to believe the fact that yes, I did, indeed, WORK and RUN a business from my HOME during certain hours of the day........

So....for the past few years, the interruptions have been few, and I can deal with that.

TODAY, however -- OH MY GOODNESS!!!! The first interruption was actually a client -- calling to complain about a physician who gives us constant trouble. It was their own work that they were interrupting, so I didn't feel too terrible about that one.

Almost immediately after that first call was a call from someone whom I barely know -- calling me to ask me questions about teenagers and how to get her boys to get along with one another and how did I handle it when my kids wanted to spend most of their free time in their rooms......well, you get the drift. She talked to me for at least 90 minutes. I know, my own fault. I just couldn't bear to leave the conversation with her having so much trouble.

After settling in to my desk and getting work started --- THE DOOR BELL RANG!!! Oh my word!! It was my neighbor from down the street -- I haven't really spoken with her at any length for a couple of years!!! She saw the storage pod in the front of our house and just had to ask to see the renovations......so I took her on a tour of our "construction zone" house and talked to her for a little while.

I got about 30 minutes of work completed, and lo and behold -- another phone call. My friend who is president of the Celiac Disease association was calling.....I talk to her about once a year, maybe, and of course, today had to be that day, I suppose. Not only did we talk about celiac disease and its relation to heart disease, but she wanted to know all about my photography.......

After she called, my husband called to tell me he was on his way home from work. I just had to laugh.....he asked if I had a difficult day -- I told him, "well, it has actually been a nice day to catch up with old friends!!! But I got almost NO work done!!!" So, tonight while he's working on the house, I'm going to BARRICADE myself in my office and WORK for a few hours so the day won't be a total loss as far as work is concerned!!!

Why am I writing this post? Oh, I don't know. I just felt the need to vent a little. I'm not angry or anything -- I COULD have cut all those people off. But today I did a lot of listening. Maybe they needed it. Who knows.

If you are ever thinking about starting a business and keeping your office at home.....well.....


(edit: I didn't even mention the other interruptions.......my daily call from the contractor, talking to Tyler about plane reservations for our family trip in November......the list goes on and on.......it was quite interesting today!!! ha ha)

Billie Goodson
October 26th, 2010, 11:54 AM
I have the option to often work from home but choose not too. If I am at home alone, I can only drive myself nuts, why do that when I can here and be around others and drive them nuts! (See the "How are you thread"). At times my wife has asked if I could work from home for some reason or another to which I have at times had to point out that I would be getting no work done while meeting that need. I do feel your pain Dana. PM me your phone number and I can call you to talk about it.... :)

Billie Goodson
October 26th, 2010, 12:00 PM
On the other hand it is kind of like traveling. Since I do have periods of pretty heavy travel for work, some people have commented on how awesome that must be. I get to go to wild and exotic places like England, DC, and San Diego! I get to live out of a suitcase and typically spend 10-12 hours each day locked in a conference room with the gentle hum of a projector and a parade of presenters. Most often, lunch is brought in so that we can work through lunch and get done early (note that early is something less than 12 hours). Out of five trips to England this year, I have spent a grand total of about 4 hours sightseeing (at night when most is locked up--I finally snuck away last trip so I could visit Westminster Abbey and attend Evensong there!). Sometimes we have finished in one place at 6pm, then have to drive about 3 hours away to meet with another group at 8am the next morning. Yes, I love travel and all the beautiful airports and hotel/conference rooms I get to see. And I get the added benefit of eating alone at night most of the time. Such a joy! The only redeeming quality is that I get a great amount of satisfaction from the work I do while traveling. Thereby proving that God is Good!

Dana Grant
October 26th, 2010, 01:36 PM
I guess nothing is perfect, is it? LOL And it's one of those "grass is always greener" situations..........HOWEVER, as much as I complained yesterday, I really wouldn't trade my job. I love it as much today as I did 33 years ago when I started in this profession......it has allowed me to homeschool, be a "stay-at-home" mom, not miss my kids' childhood, travel and work at the same time (sometimes that's not the best, but it's better than not traveling at all)......and still make a better-than-decent living.....so I'm really not complaining......not REALLY.......LOL

Billie Goodson
October 26th, 2010, 03:34 PM
I guess nothing is perfect, is it? LOL And it's one of those "grass is always greener" situations..........HOWEVER, as much as I complained yesterday, I really wouldn't trade my job. I love it as much today as I did 33 years ago when I started in this profession......it has allowed me to homeschool, be a "stay-at-home" mom, not miss my kids' childhood, travel and work at the same time (sometimes that's not the best, but it's better than not traveling at all)......and still make a better-than-decent living.....so I'm really not complaining......not REALLY.......LOL

Some things will always hold trump!

Jim Franklin
October 26th, 2010, 05:40 PM
Dana, for someone with a troubled heart listening is a ministry and a blessing for those who need someone like you that is compassionate and caring. I reach out and give you a pat on the shoulder if no one else does.

Gina Stevenson
October 26th, 2010, 06:41 PM
Your post reminds me of something I used to hear over & over long ago [the program's no longer on, and I'm not sure of the status of the one who used to say it]:


"Man's interruptions are God's appointments."

As Jim has said, listening is a good thing. Bless you! ;)

Nelson Bradford
October 27th, 2010, 04:20 PM
Q: Mrs G. During or even after all those interruptions, did you feel needed or used.

Your true response reflects your own personal value and worth.

I hope you felt needed.

Not used.

-neb

Andy Mistak
October 27th, 2010, 06:21 PM
Q: Mrs G. During or even after all those interruptions, did you feel needed or used.

Your true response reflects your own personal value and worth.

I hope you felt needed.

Not used.

-neb

I like that, Nelson. Is it yours or did you steal it?

Nelson Bradford
October 27th, 2010, 06:54 PM
Guilty as charged
8-)

Dana Grant
October 27th, 2010, 08:07 PM
Q: Mrs G. During or even after all those interruptions, did you feel needed or used.

Your true response reflects your own personal value and worth.

I hope you felt needed.

Not used.

-neb

No I didn't feel used. I did feel a bit rushed, but decided when the conversations took the turns that they did, I decided to just sit and listen and participate without rushing.....I mean, I'm not really that afraid of losing a client over one day's sloughing off.....LOL Plus I made it up in the evening and nighttime anyway.........


So all was a-okay.