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Donna Beukelman
1st July 2006, 12:07 AM (00:07)
My mom, Nelrose McKay, has had alzheimer's for many years and was at the end. My parents currently live in Phoenix close to me. Last Sunday she stopped eating and drinking and became completely unresponsive. Then early this morning she breathed her last and was gathered to her people. And God was with her!

Mom and dad lived in Pasadena, TX from 1963-1998 and attended Pasadena First Church and also Nasa Naz. Church (now known as Clearlake, I believe). My mom was also the NWMS President of the Houston District for all my growning up years that I can remember. I'm not sure when she retired from being the Dist. NWMS Pres., but probably sometime in the early 90's. She was an elementary school teacher.

Our family and my brothers will be traveling next week to Louisianna for the funeral and she will be buried next to her parents.

Back in Pasadena, TX, my family was also good friends with John Ross' family. His sister Nancy lived at our house alot. John's mother, Ovan, had written a poem to my mom when she retired from being a school teacher. I ran across the card and poem as I'm going through family pictures to make a DVD for the funeral. Thought I would share the poem.

Mother to three, second mother to many,
taking the fatherless under your wing.
Loving, comforting, always consoling
till sadness softened. Again she could sing.

You taught the handicapped, the maladjusted,
those who had trouble just learning to cope
with a bewildering world so far beyond them.
You gave new confidence. You gave new hope.

Now this is your time, long may you enjoy it.
Do all the things that you had to postpone.
You've earned your leisure. Persue special interest.
Enjoy the crowds or relax all alone.

Jump on the caracal! Life swirls around you!
Grab for the brass ring! Soon you will find
each day is unique. Each holds adventure,
Every day God given. One of a kind!
Ovan

Love you mom and I'm smiling know you are free at last from the trappings of the earthly body.

Donna

Gary Swartzlander
1st July 2006, 12:19 AM (00:19)
Donna, our thoughts and prayers are with you and family and friends.

Sue Pyles
1st July 2006, 12:34 AM (00:34)
Donna,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I sense that your mother was a beautiful lady who truly cared about others.I'm sure you have many wonderful memeories to cherish.

Barb Bouldrey
1st July 2006, 01:13 AM (01:13)
thank you for sharing with us tonight. I know you will miss her but you are thankful that she is free.

May God comfort you and your family.

Barb

Judy Hamilton
1st July 2006, 01:55 AM (01:55)
Thank you for sharing tonight Donna..myprayers are with you and your family

Judy

Dennis M. Scott
1st July 2006, 07:27 AM (07:27)
Praying for you, your family, and all those for whom she cared.

Barbara Moulton
1st July 2006, 07:49 AM (07:49)
Praying for you and your family.

Beth Larpenter-Shurbutt
1st July 2006, 09:10 AM (09:10)
Donna,

I'm so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Where in Louisiana will she be buried?

Beth

G R 'Scott' Cundiff
1st July 2006, 09:45 AM (09:45)
I pray that the comfort of the Lord will be real in your life during this difficult time. May the peace of Christ be yours.

Dave McClung
1st July 2006, 09:59 AM (09:59)
Mom and dad lived in Pasadena, TX from 1963-1998 and attended Pasadena First Church and also Nasa Naz. Church (now known as Clearlake, I believe). My mom was also the NWMS President of the Houston District for all my growning up years that I can remember. I'm not sure when she retired from being the Dist. NWMS Pres., but probably sometime in the early 90's. She was an elementary school teacher.



Donna
I had not made the connection. We were on the Houston District while your mother was NWMS president. I recognize her picture.

Dave McClung

Donna Beukelman
1st July 2006, 12:52 PM (12:52)
Thank you very much for the replys and prayers. I appreciate it very much.

Beth...my mom will be buried in a very tiny tiny town called Downsville, just south of Lake D'Arbonne which is in the north part of LA. The next closest town of any size is Farmerville, where the funeral home is.

Donna

John Kennedy
1st July 2006, 01:28 PM (13:28)
Donna -

Have some idea of what you've been through. My Dad died with Alzheimers in 1990. At the funeral, the organist played "Christ, the Lord, is Ris'n Today" as we left the church. The phrase in one of the stanzas keeps running through my mind, "Fought, the fight, the battle won. Alleluia!"

There was a note of celebration - one of the cruelest things that can afflict us had done its worst and Dad was finally home and in his right mind. May you know God's presence and peace at this time.

John Kennedy

Anne and Dwayne Hood
1st July 2006, 02:33 PM (14:33)
Donna, Dwayne and I are so sorry. We offer our condolences and prayers.
My mother went to be with Jesus 18 months ago. She was 93.
For your Mother:
She was different, she was special
Unigue in a thousand ways
She was giving, she was loving
and we'll miss her all our days.
Her legacy was friendship,
she was so giving of her time,
Her bequest was her faith in god,
Her children: her books of rhyme.--- Helen Steiner Rice
But, remember, you will meet her in the morning.

Virginia Stimer
1st July 2006, 03:01 PM (15:01)
Donna,

Sorry for your lose. I don't remember meeting your mother but I did tour the Houston district in 1971 near the end of my first furlough.

Virginia

Terri Knoll
1st July 2006, 10:27 PM (22:27)
she is beautiful. my sympathies to your family

Marsha Gupton
1st July 2006, 10:49 PM (22:49)
Donna

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Gina Stevenson
1st July 2006, 11:43 PM (23:43)
Donna, Ed, Jared & Audrey ... I remember your mom ... your grandma.

Duane, sorry for the loss of your wife, tho' I'm sure you, too, are glad to see her free from her physical sufferings.

blessings & {{{ HUGS }}} for you all,

gina

PS * since your dad's been a "computer guy" for several years now, perhaps we can find his old email addy, and send him a note there in Phoenix. gs

Christine Josephson
2nd July 2006, 07:52 AM (07:52)
Donna and Family

Prayers going up for all of you at this time.

Donna Beukelman
2nd July 2006, 11:22 AM (11:22)
Donna -

Have some idea of what you've been through. My Dad died with Alzheimers in 1990. At the funeral, the organist played "Christ, the Lord, is Ris'n Today" as we left the church. The phrase in one of the stanzas keeps running through my mind, "Fought, the fight, the battle won. Alleluia!"

There was a note of celebration - one of the cruelest things that can afflict us had done its worst and Dad was finally home and in his right mind. May you know God's presence and peace at this time.

John Kennedy

John

Thanks for sharing the song. My mother loved hymns. I like these words very much and will talk to my brothers about using this song.

To everyone....thank you so much for all your resonses and prayers. My father and brothers have read the posts and appreciate the prayers very much.

Donna