Perhaps this is a spin-off of the Wesleyan View of Homosexuality thread. I have recently encountered a married couple seeking direction regarding what their future might look like given the fact that one is heterosexual and the other is coming out to acknowledge a same sex attraction. I will admit this is a new "concept" for me to provide pastoral care. I am not even sure of what kind of questions to ask. Therefore, I would be interested in pastoral care feedback.