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    has anyone seen/heard about this? Any comments??

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.com/

    Perhaps this was discussed on the previous board prior to the crash
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    Yes Nelson this has been a highly debated site. Rich Schmidt just recently made reference to it in his KJV only post on the theology forum.
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    It has been thoroughly discussed on the theology forum, before the crash.
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    It's Manny Silva's blog. He was a member here before the crash.
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    has anyone seen/heard about this? Any comments??

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.com/

    Perhaps this was discussed on the previous board prior to the crash
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    Manny apparently addressed Pastors on the New England District on April 10th. This video he provides from that presentation pretty well sums up his position as one of the self appointed leaders of "Concerned Nazarenes".

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.co...arene-problem/

    He sees himself as a "watchmen" and "defender of the the true faith". He sees any objection to his position as "persecution" for his righteousness which he uses to validate himself as a "true believer". He does make some good points about legitimate concerns but unfortunately largely mischaracterizes the positions of others and charges anyone and everyone (including Nazarene leaders, Pastors and teachers) as a "heretic" through "guilt by association" if they associate in any way with things like the "emergent church" conversation or anything that seems to Catholic in practice. The most critical element of who is a "real Christian" seems for him and other "Concerned Nazarenes" to be the belief in the inerrancy of scripture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by James Diggs View Post
    Manny apparently addressed Pastors on the New England District on April 10th. This video he provides from that presentation pretty well sums up his position as one of the self appointed leaders of "Concerned Nazarenes".

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.co...arene-problem/

    He sees himself as a "watchmen" and "defender of the the true faith". He sees any objection to his position as "persecution" for his righteousness which he uses to validate himself as a "true believer". He does make some good points about legitimate concerns but unfortunately largely mischaracterizes the positions of others and charges anyone and everyone (including Nazarene leaders, Pastors and teachers) as a "heretic" through "guilt by association" if they associate in any way with things like the "emergent church" conversation or anything that seems to Catholic in practice. The most critical element of who is a "real Christian" seems for him and other "Concerned Nazarenes" to be the belief in the inerrancy of scripture.

    You are correct, Manny's psychology is such that anything but full agreement is evil, false, and heretical and therefore he must be right. Manny has a pathological NEED to be right in everything he says and does. What he really can't stand is to be ignored.

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    I honestly don't know of any New England District Pastors who attended this April 10th meeting. I did here a passing remark about an invitation that might have been sent to all New England District Pastors but don't know of anyone who actual got an invite.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Abrams View Post
    I honestly don't know of any New England District Pastors who attended this April 10th meeting. I did here a passing remark about an invitation that might have been sent to all New England District Pastors but don't know of anyone who actual got an invite.
    I received the invitation. I had planned on going, but that day brought a number of other things, namely my mother's birthday celebration. I e-mailed Manny to let him know that I had planned on, but could not go, and received a nice response.
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    From the video on his blog, I would have had a very difficult time remaining silent or even remaining present.
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    Re: Reformed Nazarenes

    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Abrams View Post
    I honestly don't know of any New England District Pastors who attended this April 10th meeting. I did here a passing remark about an invitation that might have been sent to all New England District Pastors but don't know of anyone who actual got an invite.
    Jeremy and I received invitations, and there is a side of me that would have wanted to give him another hearing. Having now watched that video, however, I'm somewhat grateful that a previous commitment prevented our attending: likely Providential.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nelson Bradford View Post
    has anyone seen/heard about this? Any comments??

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.com/

    Perhaps this was discussed on the previous board prior to the crash
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    I'm sorry, I tried but I cannot seem to bring myself to sit through 20 minutes of Manny demonizing everything with which he disagrees.
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    An insight was the part where Manny lamented emergent Nazarens' unwillingness to be judgemental.

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    As an old fashioned Nazarene who believes we should hold to the original message of the doctrine as researched and presented by my dad's old friend, H. Orton Wiley whose book was used by Dr. Eugene Stowe in my undergraduate course in Biblical Theology, I decry this wind of doctrine which was prophesied in the scriptures to be a sign of the last days. My sister has told me that her pastor is leaving the Nazarene denomination to proceed with graduate work at another seminary and afterward will seek a pastoral call with another or independent group as he is fed up with this whole emergent church trend as unBiblical and denying our holiness heritage. We certainly don't need any Marxist ideologs infiltrating, adulterating and undermining the true message of the Gospel of Saving Grace.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Franklin View Post
    As an old fashioned Nazarene who believes we should hold to the original message of the doctrine as researched and presented by my dad's old friend, H. Orton Wiley whose book was used by Dr. Eugene Stowe in my undergraduate course in Biblical Theology, I decry this wind of doctrine which was prophesied in the scriptures to be a sign of the last days. My sister has told me that her pastor is leaving the Nazarene denomination to proceed with graduate work at another seminary and afterward will seek a pastoral call with another or independent group as he is fed up with this whole emergent church trend as unBiblical and denying our holiness heritage.
    Jim, I think this discussion would be better in another thread -- but I will start it here. Can you give the specifics of the "emergent church" that you think are unbiblical?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Franklin View Post
    As an old fashioned Nazarene who believes we should hold to the original message of the doctrine as researched and presented by my dad's old friend, H. Orton Wiley whose book was used by Dr. Eugene Stowe in my undergraduate course in Biblical Theology, I decry this wind of doctrine which was prophesied in the scriptures to be a sign of the last days. My sister has told me that her pastor is leaving the Nazarene denomination to proceed with graduate work at another seminary and afterward will seek a pastoral call with another or independent group as he is fed up with this whole emergent church trend as unBiblical and denying our holiness heritage.
    Jim,
    Could you tell us what exactly in the emergent church is unbiblical and denying our holiness heritage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Franklin View Post
    As an old fashioned Nazarene who believes we should hold to the original message of the doctrine as researched and presented by my dad's old friend, H. Orton Wiley whose book was used by Dr. Eugene Stowe in my undergraduate course in Biblical Theology, I decry this wind of doctrine which was prophesied in the scriptures to be a sign of the last days. My sister has told me that her pastor is leaving the Nazarene denomination to proceed with graduate work at another seminary and afterward will seek a pastoral call with another or independent group as he is fed up with this whole emergent church trend as unBiblical and denying our holiness heritage. We certainly don't need any Marxist ideologs infiltrating, adulterating and undermining the true message of the Gospel of Saving Grace.
    Quote Originally Posted by Shea Zellweger View Post
    Jim,
    Could you tell us what exactly in the emergent church is unbiblical and denying our holiness heritage?
    Here we go again...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Franklin View Post
    My sister has told me that her pastor is leaving the Nazarene denomination to proceed with graduate work at another seminary and afterward will seek a pastoral call with another or independent group as he is fed up with this whole emergent church trend as unBiblical and denying our holiness heritage. We certainly don't need any Marxist ideologs infiltrating, adulterating and undermining the true message of the Gospel of Saving Grace.
    I think he's talking about his sister's pastor as far as a trend toward the emergent church being unbiblical and denying the holiness message. He may share that idea but it is his sister's pastor's idea he's presenting. I am interested in this part though.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Franklin View Post
    We certainly don't need any Marxist ideologs infiltrating, adulterating and undermining the true message of the Gospel of Saving Grace.
    Can you express your view more fully on this? Does this connect to the emergent church in your mind? If so, how? Who are you reading within the emergent movement that advocates that? Hopefully you're not applying a Glenn Beck-ish stereotype concerning social justice or whatever other stuff that man cooks up.

    If change is inevitable, does the problem lie with change or the way we deal with that change? It saddens me that your sister's pastor would leave the denomination rather than try to be part of a solution to what he perceived as a problem. If the church has a message worth living and dying for then I think we should be willing to engage people that don't agree with us in honest conversation. It's probably the least we can do.

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    Let's avoid piling on Jim or Manny in this thread if we could.

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    Quote Originally Posted by James Diggs View Post
    Manny apparently addressed Pastors on the New England District on April 10th. This video he provides from that presentation pretty well sums up his position as one of the self appointed leaders of "Concerned Nazarenes".

    http://reformednazarene.wordpress.co...arene-problem/
    Thanks for linking to that video, James. I participate in the comments on Manny's blog from time to time, but I'd missed that video of his presentation.

    He says in the video, starting around 14:50 --
    They [emergent Nazarene pastors] are forcing long-time members to leave their church if they dare to question anything. I won't have time to go into it now, but I am a result of that questioning. And I know many across the country who have given similar stories to me of how they were forced to leave their church of years and years because they dared to question what was going on.
    There's a part of me that wants to believe that this isn't really happening, that no one is being forced out of their church simply because they are asking questions... but Manny knows several, and I've read posts or comments from some. That truly saddens me. I hope that if someone were asking those questions in the church I pastor, I would answer them patiently, thoroughly, and gracefully. Sure, they might decide to leave the church if they don't like my answers to their questions... but that would be their choice. And I would be sad to see them go.

    If Manny's situation is to be representative, though.... I don't think he was forced to leave his church. I think he has said that he and his family felt they had to leave because they disagreed so strongly with the emergent stuff that was being promoted in their church. That's different from being forced out of a church, if you ask me. But I could be wrong about Manny's story. I'm going from fuzzy memories of what I've read on his blog and the Concerned Nazarenes page on Facebook. Maybe Manny will stop by here and clear that part up.

    Either way.... it's still sad.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kevin Rector View Post
    Let's avoid piling on Jim or Manny in this thread if we could.
    Kevin, I'd love to never have to think about Manny, Tim or Grant at all, trust me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rich Schmidt View Post
    There's a part of me that wants to believe that this isn't really happening, that no one is being forced out of their church simply because they are asking questions... but Manny knows several, and I've read posts or comments from some. That truly saddens me. I hope that if someone were asking those questions in the church I pastor, I would answer them patiently, thoroughly, and gracefully. Sure, they might decide to leave the church if they don't like my answers to their questions... but that would be their choice. And I would be sad to see them go.
    Rich, I think that your safe. I can't for the life of me think that you would shy away from answering questions. Or questions about questions about questions for that regard, I have never once seen you walk away from a conversation, you stay and you interact. I don't think that was the case with Manny's pastor, I got the sense that he felt that Manny's questions threatened his authority and I think that he overreacted. Yes Manny can come on strong, no doubt there, but he does listen to reason and he can respect convictions. He will not agree with something that he feels is unbiblical, just to get along, then again neither will I.

    I think that what some of you are seeing in Manny is his response to leadership that has responded with ridicule rather than reason.
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    My perspective on the process is that in many cases, churches are dying. Their constituent population is mostly people over 60, heading toward 70, with a conservative, evangelistic outlook on church and what's it's for, and what moral causes should be at the heart of it.

    New pastors come into these churches (or the existing pastors realize that their churches are dying) and they take steps to become more contemporary, perhaps even more postmodern. They introduce contemporary worship, more discussion, they bring in work by more modern (sometimes emergent) authors. They hold 40 days of purpose events, etc. They switch to a more contemporary bible, like the NLT or the ESV.

    The old guard grow alarmed by what they've been taught to see for decades as a watering down of scripture, a moving away from reliable sources of teaching and worship to new, Emergent means. They look online for information about these writers, and the majority of what they find on the web is people who are like them, who think like them, talking about how these are false teachers looking to lead the youth of the nation astray. They become more alarmed, and speak urgently to their pastor about the need to maintain (what they're used to) proper biblical teaching, worship, and practice, and the pastor makes it clear that he's more interested in the church growing, than in maintaining some antiquated measure of spirituality.

    And then they leave, angry. Some of them find more conservative churches to attend, where the "safe ways" are practiced (my parents are in that kind of quandry right now) while others decide that there's a war on, and they go looking for others to help fight the good fight with them.

    They aren't doing this because they're particularly mean spirited, or against God. They are actively concerned, Godly people, whose entire culture is being overturned, and are fighting against it.

    ...

    I would venture, btw. in the manner of David P.'s article on the subject, that the actual issue of these churches is not how contemporary they are, but rather how they incarnate Christ in the world. It's not how contemporary your worship or your message series is, it's whether they can see Christ in you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Todd Erickson View Post
    My perspective on the process is that in many cases, churches are dying. Their constituent population is mostly people over 60, heading toward 70, with a conservative, evangelistic outlook on church and what's it's for, and what moral causes should be at the heart of it.

    New pastors come into these churches (or the existing pastors realize that their churches are dying) and they take steps to become more contemporary, perhaps even more postmodern. They introduce contemporary worship, more discussion, they bring in work by more modern (sometimes emergent) authors. They hold 40 days of purpose events, etc. They switch to a more contemporary bible, like the NLT or the ESV.

    The old guard grow alarmed by what they've been taught to see for decades as a watering down of scripture, a moving away from reliable sources of teaching and worship to new, Emergent means. They look online for information about these writers, and the majority of what they find on the web is people who are like them, who think like them, talking about how these are false teachers looking to lead the youth of the nation astray. They become more alarmed, and speak urgently to their pastor about the need to maintain (what they're used to) proper biblical teaching, worship, and practice, and the pastor makes it clear that he's more interested in the church growing, than in maintaining some antiquated measure of spirituality.

    And then they leave, angry. Some of them find more conservative churches to attend, where the "safe ways" are practiced (my parents are in that kind of quandry right now) while others decide that there's a war on, and they go looking for others to help fight the good fight with them.

    They aren't doing this because they're particularly mean spirited, or against God. They are actively concerned, Godly people, whose entire culture is being overturned, and are fighting against it.

    ...I would venture, btw. in the manner of David P.'s article on the subject, that the actual issue of these churches is not how contemporary they are, but rather how they incarnate Christ in the world. It's not how contemporary your worship or your message series is, it's whether they can see Christ in you.
    Good, quick evaluation and description, except that it is far more complicated: it often is. Every person and situation is different. That's the nature of the Church when the Lord gifts people differently as He sees fit. Consequently, the "change" isn't merely a time thing. It is personal, cultural, geographic, intellectual, etc. The Lord seems to be comfortable with that: some earthlings seem unable to grant Him that perogative. I don't know a single person who completely embraces everything maintained by any of the people cited as emergent, or even characterized at all.

    There has been a long line of similar responses for our entire history. Many on either side of some imaginary line have chosen to leave. Some of those have eventually returned, others have made such a scene that return just couldn't happen. One of my greatest concerns is that it can be damagingly distracting from mission.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Todd Erickson View Post
    My perspective on the process is that in many cases, churches are dying. Their constituent population is mostly people over 60, heading toward 70, with a conservative, evangelistic outlook on church and what's it's for, and what moral causes should be at the heart of it.

    New pastors come into these churches (or the existing pastors realize that their churches are dying) and they take steps to become more contemporary, perhaps even more postmodern. They introduce contemporary worship, more discussion, they bring in work by more modern (sometimes emergent) authors. They hold 40 days of purpose events, etc. They switch to a more contemporary bible, like the NLT or the ESV.

    The old guard grow alarmed by what they've been taught to see for decades as a watering down of scripture, a moving away from reliable sources of teaching and worship to new, Emergent means. They look online for information about these writers, and the majority of what they find on the web is people who are like them, who think like them, talking about how these are false teachers looking to lead the youth of the nation astray. They become more alarmed, and speak urgently to their pastor about the need to maintain (what they're used to) proper biblical teaching, worship, and practice, and the pastor makes it clear that he's more interested in the church growing, than in maintaining some antiquated measure of spirituality.

    And then they leave, angry. Some of them find more conservative churches to attend, where the "safe ways" are practiced (my parents are in that kind of quandry right now) while others decide that there's a war on, and they go looking for others to help fight the good fight with them.

    They aren't doing this because they're particularly mean spirited, or against God. They are actively concerned, Godly people, whose entire culture is being overturned, and are fighting against it.

    ...

    I would venture, btw. in the manner of David P.'s article on the subject, that the actual issue of these churches is not how contemporary they are, but rather how they incarnate Christ in the world. It's not how contemporary your worship or your message series is, it's whether they can see Christ in you.
    Todd, I would agree with you, in fact this may be true in many cases. However it isn't always the case. Sometimes it is the new modern contemporary people who are intolerant, they are there to bring change, and if that change involves brooming people out the door, no problem.

    A few years back I was asked to work with a young worship leader at another church (not Nazarene), this church was somewhat traditional, yet open minded and forward looking. Their music program had slowly deteriorated over the years to a young woman singing while her husband played guitar. Their abilities weren't the problem, nor was their desire and commitment, but their lack of confidence was contagious and the result was very sad to watch. Enter this talented young man with confidence to spare. Between his family and congregants he pieced together a decent team talent wise. Drums, guitar, bass, keyboards and piano, his vocal talents were pretty good and his sister was a talented vocalist as well.

    But tolerance was not his strong suit. He insisted that the congregation would be singing that which God had given him, actually heard him say it out loud once. He was frustrated that very few in the congregation would sing along, yet rather than reach out to their level to minister, he doubled down on his efforts toward excellence. Practice twice a week, lectures toward the sound and visual people. The end result was a congregation that came each Sunday to a concert rather than a time of worship, the end result was his leaving the church defeated and with a downcast spirit. It was sad to watch. I just recall this to show that it isn't always the cranky old folk that resist change. We need to be uniters!

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    Rich, I think that your safe. I can't for the life of me think that you would shy away from answering questions. Or questions about questions about questions for that regard, I have never once seen you walk away from a conversation, you stay and you interact. I don't think that was the case with Manny's pastor, I got the sense that he felt that Manny's questions threatened his authority and I think that he overreacted. Yes Manny can come on strong, no doubt there, but he does listen to reason and he can respect convictions. He will not agree with something that he feels is unbiblical, just to get along, then again neither will I.

    I think that what some of you are seeing in Manny is his response to leadership that has responded with ridicule rather than reason.
    Thanks, Jim. Let me say, though, that I can imagine situations in which I might have to ask a person to leave -- if I've answered their questions thoroughly and repeatedly, and they just keep on asking them, not only of me or the board but of everyone else in the church, in a way that isn't respectful and teachable but is intended to undermine. I can imagine reaching a point where I would have to say to someone, "Look, I've answered your questions repeatedly. The board has answered your questions. I've addressed your questions publicly in sermons. I'm sorry you don't agree, but I can't let you repeatedly bring these questions up Sunday after Sunday with everyone else in the church and with the new people coming in. I'm responsible for this flock, and the board holds me accountable, and the DS watches over us all (and I know you've talked to him already). So it's time for you to decide if you want to stay here and move forward with us or find a different church that you can wholeheartedly support. Because what you're doing here and now is not good. So please, make up your mind."

    I haven't had to do this yet... but we're a new church, so if people show up and don't like our approach or our take on things, they don't stick around to duke it out. They just don't come back. But if I did have to do this, I imagine it would take several months, and at least a dozen conversations, before it would reach that point... unless the person was extremely disruptive.

    And, again, I have no idea how the conversations between Manny and his pastor played out. His pastor's breaking point may have been very different from my own. It is clear that it was a rough experience for Manny. I imagine it was a rough experience for his pastor, too.

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    But tolerance was not his strong suit. He insisted that the congregation would be singing that which God had given him, actually heard him say it out loud once. He was frustrated that very few in the congregation would sing along, yet rather than reach out to their level to minister, he doubled down on his efforts toward excellence. Practice twice a week, lectures toward the sound and visual people. The end result was a congregation that came each Sunday to a concert rather than a time of worship, the end result was his leaving the church defeated and with a downcast spirit. It was sad to watch. I just recall this to show that it isn't always the cranky old folk that resist change. We need to be uniters!
    I've seen plenty of variations on this. Worship leaders who feel like they're being attacked if everybody doesn't sing with fervor, Worship leaders who have plenty of solos and lead all of the music "their way", etc. I think that any part of the overall church ministry can be a distraction, if people let it, from who we are in Unity together, whether Emerging, Fundamentalist, or whatever.

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    We need to be uniters!
    Yes. However, there needs to be a way to reach that. When I'm a heretic for not believing the verbal dictation theory of the Scriptures, what is the way to unite? Please tell me.
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    We need to be uniters!
    Quote Originally Posted by Hans Deventer View Post
    Yes. However, there needs to be a way to reach that. When I'm a heretic for not believing the verbal dictation theory of the Scriptures, what is the way to unite? Please tell me.
    And they, of course, would ask, "How can we be united to people who are following a different gospel?"

    It certainly is a difficult situation.
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    And they, of course, would ask, "How can we be united to people who are following a different gospel?"
    Upon which I would answer, what part of the Apostle's Creed or the Nicean Creed or even the Nazarene Agreed Statement of Belief don't I agree with? And since the answer is none, who has been changing the gospel?

    When one has taken it upon oneself to define the "rules" of orthodoxy, it's easy to find heretics.

    The situation isn't so difficult. If you want to be a Nazarene, abide by what the Church teaches, as the BoGS has recently once again explained. It's not so hard to unite there, if you want. And if you don't agree, hey, God's kingdom is a lot bigger than the CotN. Seek a place where you can be a blessing, I'm sure the Lord will guide you. It's what I would do.
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    Yes. However, there needs to be a way to reach that. When I'm a heretic for not believing the verbal dictation theory of the Scriptures, what is the way to unite? Please tell me.
    There is a very difficult reality at work here: as valuable as "peace" or "unity" is, it cannot be obtained no matter the cost. Sometimes the cost is too high.

    The classic historical example is the UK Prime Minister Lord Neville Chamberlain's 1938 Munich Pact with Adolf Hitler, which allowed Germany to annex part of Czechoslovakia (the Sudentenland). Lord Chamberlain proclaimed "peace with honor" and "peace in our time." Just a few months later in March of 1939, Hitler invaded the remainder of Czechoslovakia, and in September of 1939 invaded Poland sparking World War II.

    There is an interesting parallel in the current USA TV series 24. In the story line, the USA president is committed to a peace treaty that would bring peace and stability to the Middle East (the IRK, or Islamic Republic of Kamistan is a symbolic Middle Eastern Muslim nation). After a series of setbacks, she declares that the treaty must be signed "no matter the cost." That begins her rapid descent into lying, cover-ups, political intrigue, torture, and murder.

    Of course, this is not so externally dramatic. The point is that peace, or unity, cannot be the only goal "no matter the cost." There are many places in Scripture, including Jesus' teaching, which point out that commitment to God will bring conflict (for example, Matt 10:34). That is no excuse to go looking for a fight, or to assume a righteous crusade to force others to believe as I do. But it does suggest a simple reality. Some things are polar opposites that will not and cannot be combined.

    I think that is why Jesus did NOT say, "Make sure that you have no enemies." Rather he said
    Luke 6:27 "But I say to you that listen, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 6:28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 6:29 If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from anyone who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. 6:30 Give to everyone who begs from you; and if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again. 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
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    ... Snip ...

    I think that is why Jesus did NOT say, "Make sure that you have no enemies." Rather he said
    Luke 6:27 "But I say to you that listen, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 6:28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 6:29 If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from anyone who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. 6:30 Give to everyone who begs from you; and if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again. 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
    I have heard a lot of sermons on the about scriptures; however, I can not recall a single sermon on "Give to everyone who begs from you."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dennis Bratcher View Post
    Of course, this is not so externally dramatic. The point is that peace, or unity, cannot be the only goal "no matter the cost." There are many places in Scripture, including Jesus' teaching, which point out that commitment to God will bring conflict (for example, Matt 10:34). That is no excuse to go looking for a fight, or to assume a righteous crusade to force others to believe as I do. But it does suggest a simple reality. Some things are polar opposites that will not and cannot be combined.

    I think that is why Jesus did NOT say, "Make sure that you have no enemies." Rather he said
    Luke 6:27 "But I say to you that listen, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 6:28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 6:29 If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from anyone who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. 6:30 Give to everyone who begs from you; and if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again. 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
    Grace and Peace,

    Dennis B.
    This is also why Paul wrote in Romans 12:
    Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. On the contrary:
    "If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
    if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
    In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

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    I have heard a lot of sermons on the about scriptures; however, I can not recall a single sermon on "Give to everyone who begs from you."
    I haven't preached that, but I have preached on, "...if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again."
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    I haven't preached that, but I have preached on, "...if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again."
    Why a sermon on the second half of the sentence (verse) while ignoring the first half? I consider the second half an expansion of the first half.

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    Maybe in print, and maybe it would appear that way when he presents, but I can tell you that he is not that way in person. Yes Manny has strong views and yes Manny can be blunt, but I have found that he can also be reasonable. Manny legitimately carries deep hurt with him, regarding his experience with his church of 38 years, 10 of which his father was the pastor. From what I know, I would agree that he was forced out, my take on his pastor's response to his questioning was good riddance to bad rubbish.
    So, the hard, name calling, demonizing is NOT the real Manny, but a defense mechanism of sorts?

    To tell the truth I have had exchanges with Manny last year that would seem to make some progress toward civility. Both of us agreeing that maybe we hold our position too tightly, then enter Tim into the mix and Manny reverts right back to his original hardline place.

    Now that you mention it, I can see deep hurt. See it in the tactics of lashing out. But It probably runs deeper than just how he was treated in church.

    If he was as vocal and used the tactics he uses as a CN, then maybe he was being disruptive and wouldn't accept counsel from leadership. What do you do in such situations, when someone is undermining your authority as Pastor, stirring up strife amongst the congregation? Hebrews 13:17 tells us to trust our leaders and not rebel against them, to not make their already stressful job more stressful. Now I have NO idea that this was what happened with Manny. I am extrapolating from public exchanges with him on FB and from reading his blog.

    Bottom line I wish Manny well and he is in my prayers. But, I can no longer enter into dialog with him.

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    Todd, I would agree with you, in fact this may be true in many cases. However it isn't always the case. Sometimes it is the new modern contemporary people who are intolerant, they are there to bring change, and if that change involves brooming people out the door, no problem.
    I think I have to agree with this statement. I even caught this attitude in myself not so very long ago. Then a couple left. It hurt! While I wasn't the direct cause as an associate, but I helped to foster or at least enabled an attitude of intolerance for the old ways and attitudes. I had to re-examine my own attitudes and prejudices and level of intolerance. I found myself coming up short and have been working with the Holy Spirit on changing this shortcoming.

    (Come to find out the reason this couple left was our lack of Sunday school after church-something I am always for)
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    Why a sermon on the second half of the sentence (verse) while ignoring the first half? I consider the second half an expansion of the first half.
    Well, I didn't actually preach on that text, but I've used that text in sermons. The latter part was in line with my sermon. The sermon was on being peacemakers, and the latter part deals with those who "take" from us which is a form of violence against us.

    We probably shouldn't go too far down this rabbit trail as it's way way way off of the topic of the thread and could really blow up.
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    I have heard a lot of sermons on the about scriptures; however, I can not recall a single sermon on "Give to everyone who begs from you."
    A sermon may be difficult because it is so difficult to live. But neither have I heard one. Might be interesting to give one.

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    Thank you for showing us another side to him. Knowing that his comments come from a place of deep hurt explains alot for me.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jim Chabot View Post
    Maybe in print, and maybe it would appear that way when he presents, but I can tell you that he is not that way in person. Yes Manny has strong views and yes Manny can be blunt, but I have found that he can also be reasonable. Manny legitimately carries deep hurt with him, regarding his experience with his church of 38 years, 10 of which his father was the pastor. From what I know, I would agree that he was forced out, my take on his pastor's response to his questioning was good riddance to bad rubbish.
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    From what I know, I would agree that he was forced out, my take on his pastor's response to his questioning was good riddance to bad rubbish.
    That's a pretty strong statement. Do you have any first-hand knowledge to support this? Have you spoken with his pastor about this before making this claim on a public website? Or are you just sharing Manny's perspective?

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