Quote Originally Posted by Paul DeBaufer View Post
Are you gay? If not then how can you say that what that young man feels is wrong? As a matter of fact isn't it emotional abuse to tell people that what they feel is wrong? I have seen gay couples who have a love that is every bit as great and committed and long lasting as the best of the hetero couples I've known.
I think you might need to step back and re-read what Kevin wrote.

1. He didn't say what the young man feels is wrong. He challenged the idea that the young man is asserting.

2. While Kevin isn't gay, he's basing his assertions in part upon the testimony of gay friends (and in part upon reason/psychology).